Sunday, 7 June 2009

Being single....being selfish

I've been single for so many years now, and it was brought to my attention recently that I may never be of the right frame of mind to have a relationship again. Is that right?

OK, I do what I like, when I like. I answer to no one, spend my money how I want to spend it, eat what and when I want, sleep horizontally across my bed and have hour long soaks in the bath....ok, ok.... I suppose I'm selfish in the relationship sense of the word.

But I'm sure that 'if' someone came into my life I would and could change. Couldn't I?

I'm a partially redundant Mum, my daughters are both old enough to look after themselves but I still consider them. I also still consider my family, friends and colleagues. So I'm not living in a totally selfish zone.

I just like sleeping horizontally across the bed - I'm sure if there was someone in the way I'd learn to live with it.... and that someone could always join me in the hour long soaks....

Selfish... P'ah to that... I'm adaptable.

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